Regina Cassandra asks Sadhguru how youth can overcome self-doubt, especially as part of the process of growing up.
Regina Cassandra:Β While growing up, there were a lot of questions in my head in terms of myself, my capabilities and my abilities. Self-doubt is definitely an issue that I and a lot of kids have to face and overcome. How does one overcome self-doubt, especially as a youngster?
Sadhguru: Namaskaram, Regina! ItβsΒ good to doubt yourself. I know everyone says, βBelieve in yourself!β I would say, βPlease doubt yourself.β If something goes right or wrong, first always look, maybe itβs you who caused this. If itβs not, then look at others. The so-called confident idiots are stepping on everyone and walking. Doubt will bring sense into you. Youβll walk gently on the planet. Β
Growth Pangs!
And when we say growing up, there are many dimensions to a human being β there are physiological, psychological, emotional and other dimensions of growth. Most of the time, we measure growth physiologically, and the next possibility is psychologically. We only discover the other dimensions when life situations challenge us. Our level of emotional and energetic growth, as well as our growth as a being, are only revealed to most of us when life throws very challenging situations at us. Most human beings will be surprised at their own reactions to life situations.Β
If people are having growth pangs, it is mainly because their psychological growth is not at least one step ahead of their physiological growth.
With regards to physiological and psychological growth, the body is a very tangible element, so it grows at a certain pace. But the psychological dimension of who you are is not such a tangible process. It is more flexible, mobile and nebulous. So it should be able to grow well ahead of your physiological process. If people are having growth pangs, it is mainly because theirΒ psychological growthΒ is not at least one step ahead of their physiological growth.Β
Though the same things have happened to billions of people on this planet forever, it still looks like they are happening for the first time in the universe. People are surprised and shocked. This is just because their psychological growth is behind their physiological growth.Β
It is very important in a society that we create a situation where every child is psychologically at least one step ahead of their physiological growth.
It is very important in a society that we create a situation where every child is psychologically at least one step ahead of their physiological growth. If you do this one thing in your life, you will see, whether it is adolescence or middle age or old age, you will not be surprised by anything β you know how to deal with it and handle it. There will be no shocks and upheavals in your life because of simple processes.Β
Life is not a problem. Life is a certain process. The question is, have you prepared yourself for the process or not?
Right now, people are living in such a way that toddlers are having diaper problems, teenagers are having hormonal issues, middle-aged people are having mid-life crisis, and in old age, people are of course suffering. Tell me one dimension of life which people are not seeing as a problem! Life is not a problem.Β Life is a certain process. The question is, have you prepared yourself for the process or not?Β
About Sadhguru:
Sadhguru is a Yogi, Mystic, and Visionary. Named one of Indiaβs 50 most influential people, Sadhguruβs work has touched the lives of millions worldwide through his transformational programs. An internationally renowned speaker and author of the New York Times Bestseller Inner Engineering: A Yogiβs Guide to Joy, Sadhguru has been an influential voice at major global forums including the United Nations and the World Economic Forum, addressing issues as diverse as socioeconomic development, leadership and spirituality (attached is aΒ press kitΒ about Sadhguru for your reference and an introductionΒ video). Isha Foundation creates an inclusive culture of global harmony throughΒ yoga programsΒ for inner transformation such asΒ Inner Engineering, as well as running inspiring projects which focus onΒ socialΒ andΒ environmentalΒ well-being.
